Treasured Babies

 

The Treasured Babies’ Program began with the aim of supporting bereaved parents while they are still in hospital with their baby (or babies in the case of a multiple birth). 

The Treasured Babies’ gifts are supplied to hospitals to give parents something special to dress their precious baby in.  Outfits have been designed and developed with input from midwives, social workers and bereaved parents for families who experience the loss of their precious baby prior to full term.  Some of the garments open out flat for babies who might be quite fragile, to ensure they are able to be dressed with a minimum of handling. 

We work together with participating maternity hospitals to provide a range of support materials that are immediately available when a baby dies. The Treasured Babies’ Program seeks to make sure that all parents receive the best possible grief support. 

The Treasured Babies’ Program aims to help hospital staff support families by having gestation-appropriate Treasured Babies’ gifts on hand to give to newly bereaved parents.  These gifts contain beautiful handmade clothing that has been specially designed, relevant literature and a naming certificate.

The Treasured Babies’ Program also supplies Angel boxes for burial, Memory boxes in which to keep precious items and Remembrance boxes for early losses.


Dressing their deceased baby can help to “normalise” the bereaved parents’ experience.  Parents are more inclined to spend time with their baby when he/she is dressed.  The clothes give them silent permission to be a mum and dad.  Spending quality time with their baby helps parents to come to terms with their grief in the coming months and gives them some precious memories to treasure.  Simple actions such as bathing, dressing  and taking photos of their baby are very important to the grieving process.  Photos taken become cherished because this is their only opportunity to do this.  Having tangible memories will help parents to grieve and they will be able to share these with their support networks.

The literature included in the Treasured Babies’ gifts answers many of the immediate questions that parents have with regard to their newly born child.  It also lets them know of the support organisations available within the community that they can access, particularly once they have left the care of the hospital.alt



The Naming Certificates are a very important way of acknowledging babies under 20 weeks’ gestation as these babies do not receive a Birth Certificate. 

Hospitals and parents receive the Treasured Babies’ gifts free of charge.  The  Treasured Babies’ Program is fully funded by donations and sponsorship and the committee coordinates a network of volunteers across Victoria who hand make the precious clothes and pack them into Treasured Babies’ gift packs.  All materials used have been kindly donated by businesses and individuals.



Why is the Treasured Babies’ Program so important?

When a baby dies in-utero, he/she is often born with little warning, leaving parents in shock and unable to organise clothing and other items for their baby.  Having ready access to appropriately-sized baby clothing, supplied by the Treasured Babies’ Program, can reduce some of the stress for parents at a time that is already very difficult.  They are then able to spend as many precious moments with their baby as they can. 

A range of items has been developed so that the gift can be adapted to meet different situations including: miscarriage, stillbirth, premature live birth/subsequent death, neonatal death and multiple births (of each of these ). 

Parents may want to dress their baby in one outfit for photos and change their baby into another outfit for burial.  This way they can treasure the clothes that were actually worn by their child. 

Additional clothing from the Treasured Babies’ gift range is made available to parents.

Being able to give newly bereaved parents the opportunity to choose what their baby wears can be empowering to the parents at a time when they have very little control over their situation.

For further information about the Treasured Babies’ Program, to make a donation or to find out about volunteering, please contact the Treasured Babies’ Centre on Tuesday or Friday mornings on 9727 5699 or SIDS and Kids NSW and Victoria on (03) 9822 9611 or contact us via email: This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it

 

 

 


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